Collector versus backend is the first decision
Grafana Alloy belongs in the collection and routing layer. Grafana Tempo and Grafana Mimir are backend choices for traces and metrics. OpenTelemetry is the broader standard around instrumentation and collection, while Prometheus is still foundational on the metrics side.
That distinction is what keeps the comparison honest. The wrong comparison treats these tools as if they are interchangeable products, when they actually sit in different parts of the telemetry path.